what it shows, for us as martial artists is that what is traditionally called a "win" may not be the best outcome. it is one outcome of many.
True. It can be a matter of semantics but it generally there is a 'foundation of expectations' that insidiously insinuates in a martial artist's mind...that makes him huff and strut...even if only inside himself...and even if consciously unaware.
Look at how many people we may have known who almost daily would love the opportunity to take someone on, to prove to themselves they are the real thing.
We have seen this here on my forum as well...
And these same people always take the occasion of slamming fellow practitioners in the dojo so they can acquire 'bragging rights'...
But then when real violence 'comes acalling' they seem to easily melt into a casket.