Wow! I mean... WOW!!!fivedragons wrote:
And this whole diatribe is utterly retarded because there isn't a single person on this website that knows what real wealth or power is.
The middle class is played off the lower class, and the upper class just doesn't really exist.
So you've got someone like Bill, defending something he doesn't even know anything about, by demonizing the masses who are below him in economic status.
As long as we can look at things in a binary sense, and fight over the scraps, the master is happy.
God help you if your master doesn't have your best interests at heart.
Obviously you don't know me.
I wonder if George remembers the time when I was in graduate school, where I drove him back to the airport in my tiny Plymouth Champ without a shotgun seat. You see... My driver's seat broke, and I couldn't afford to go to the junk yard and get a new one. So I took the shotgun seat out and made it the new driver's seat. And that made a ride in the back seat something like days of old where you had REAL leg room.fivedragons wrote:
demonizing the masses who are below him in economic status.
I wonder if you know what a 1963 Rambler American is. It was my first car, handed down to me by my dad. He upgraded to another Rambler.
I wonder if you know what it's like to grow up never to have had "new" clothes. I wore hand-me-downs from my brother who was 2 years older than me. High school was when I first got to wear "new" clothes. You know... my mom going into a clothing store and asking the guy what was on sale. It was always the stupid-looking stuff that nobody wanted to buy. Between that and my dad not being able to afford insurance for a 16-year-old driver, it was actually kind of good for me to transfer to a school that (at the time) was almost all male.
I wonder if you know that I drive 2 mommy vans. The wife drives a small Subaru. There isn't a vehicle in the house with less that 100K miles. I need the third one to drive when one of the other 2 break down or need routine maintenance. And I take REALLY good care of my vehicles, because I drive them until they are ready for a Kidney Foundation donation.
Did I have great opportunities when I grew up? Absolutely. Why? Because my dad and mom put education ahead of country clubs, a house in the "nice" part of town (my dad built the brick home that we grew up in), nice cars, nice clothes, and other things that we THINK we need.
Did I have the benefit of a good education after leaving home? Yes. But that happened because I worked while going through school. In grad school, I got 3 hours of sleep a night for the first 3 years while going to classes, teaching PE classes at the University (for chump change), and then doing research as payback for my NIH trainingship grant. I lived a decade on $400 a month. I lived off of eggs, canned tuna (when it went on sale) and 3-pound boxes of elbow macaroni (the cheapest way to get pasta). I'd buy meat on sale, break it up into dinner-size portions, and freeze it for future use. I walked to classes, and often to the gym to teach karate.
When I graduated, I started off as a post doc. I could barely live on that income plus pay back my student loans. But I found a way to make it.
I was 10 years out of my PhD program before I didn't have negative net worth. Needless to say, it was a long, long time before I could start taking full advantage of the time value of money. But you know what? I saved anyway.
My father saved for the future too. Through all those years of raising 8 kids, he did nothing for himself. But he managed to see all 8 kids through at least a college degree. Five of the eight have advanced degrees. I paid for most of my education via work and loans.
I'm now saving for my retirement, because I know that social security won't be there for me. Do the math. There aren't going to be enough young folk working to support a generation of retired baby boomers. So I don't drive a nice BMW like my son's friends' parents drive. My son wants me to drop him off in a place other than where most of the kids get dropped off. It's the mommy van with 100K miles, you know...
But I'm saving for my retirement. And I'm saving to help pay for my sons' educations.
Ever read Daniel Goleman's book Emotional Intelligence? Very interesting read. I recommend it for all martial artists. He has quite a bit to say about the subject of being "emotionally hijacked." No self-defense course should be taught without an understanding of the concept being communicated.
In Goleman's book, he talks about an experiment they did with kids. They give each kid in a classroom a cookie. Then they tell them that if they hold onto the cookie for a day, they'll give them a second cookie. Most of the kids eat their cookies. A few hold on, and get their second cookie the next day. There's a bit of jealousy as the reward is given. The researcher who did this cookie experiment followed the kids by choice (save or eat the cookie on the first day) throughout their adult lives. Guess who rose to the high end of the socioeconomic spectrum by adulthood?
Ever heard of the concept of delayed gratification?
Centries ago, Vilfredo Pareto observed that 20 percent of Italians owned 80 percent of the wealth. Today that exact phenomenon holds - no matter where you go. Only "wealth redistribution" through unequal taxation changes that natural phenomenon. Check your tax code. The more money you make, the higher the PERCENTAGE of income that Uncle Sam takes away. The more liberal the government, the greater that taxation penalty.
THAT is redistribution of wealth.
The fact that some folks know how to save their cookie for another day - and most don't - is a phenomenon associated with variable emotional intelligence. I happen to be one of those folks who thinks that people who don't pi$$ every dollar away that they make - no matter how much or how little they make (ask MC Hammer) - are people to be respected and emulated. I happen to admire a Joe the Plumber who wants to go out on his own and be an independent business owner.
If you think that my lack of respect for people who pi$$ their hard-earned money away rather than save for the future is a bad thing, well then fine. If you think that I'm going to help pay for those folks' retirement when I didn't ride around in a BMW while in my bread winning years, well... Good luck getting it!
That's what I mean, fivedragons. No silver spoon here. Sorry to burst your strawman bubble.
More later. I want to communicate a similar phenomenon with respect to leavers vs. stayers in a martial arts class.
- Bill