Dana, your last post made me think of something that happened several times.
After teaching me a form, my teacher would look at me, perform a small section, and ask me what I thought that particular movement could mean.
I would answer with a shrug, and say that it looked pretty much like so and so...
And then he would smile, shake his head and say "well if you don't want to kill him you can......"
I used to think to myself "Isn't this supposed to be a martial art? What does he mean if I don't want to kill them?"
Now, I really wish I listened and learned all the information he was passing on to me about how to protect myself or others without having to destroy another human being.
I really thought I knew what he should teach me, and I thought I would make him proud by showing that I could be so "deadly", but really I was a total idiot. You see he had been through more than most people, learned how to deal with his demons, and was teaching me something more valuable than I could understand or appreciate at the time.
But I thought I knew better than he did, what he wanted me to learn.
